"Soul Mate - The One who makes Life come to Life."

I came across some interesting tips for connecting to soul mate . So just thought of sharing it with you. And here it goes

#1 The first step is to be happy with yourself. Do not consider that you are in a needy position.
#2 Do exercises on self-esteem if required, but you must have this feeling of self-worth. Only then will you be worthy of any relationship, especially a soul mate one.
#3 Do things you love to do. It is much easier to attract a soul mate if you are a fulfilled person.
#4 Identify what exactly you are looking for. A lot of things will get concreted once you acknowledge your dreams and your approach is more focused.
#5 Attend meditation-oriented courses that help clean the negative aspects in your other relationships. This helps remove mental blocks, if any.
#6 Practice creative visualization techniques.
#7 Experience a feeling, then surrender to it.
#8 Do your own research. Look for inspiration from others who are happy, those who appear as 'made for each other' couples.
#9 Go through books and magazines, find your role models.
#10 Maintain a scrapbook. It should have black pages, for the photographs to really stand out. Paste pictures of what you are looking for—a caring husband, a Mercedes, a house, children, candlelit dinners, whatever. Keep adding to this scrapbook, it keeps your dream alive. Look at it many times a day.
#11 Prepare your own audio cassette. The tape should contain at least 30 affirmations. An example of an affirmation: "I am now attracting a man who is honest, sincere (list the qualities you are looking for). I now attract the right man who is in complete harmony with me. I can give him love, peace, joy." Play the cassette regularly. These affirmations, ill sets of three, are to be repeated 70 times a day, for three weeks, since it is generally believed that it takes 21 days for a habit to form.
#12 Be prepared to surrender the time frame, though. Finding a soul mate, as Richard Bach discovered, too, is not deadline-oriented. In all likelihood, your search will meet with success when you least expect it, or when you have given up looking.
#13 Trust the universe to provide you with what you want.